If you’re not valued and treasured for who you really are, do this…

Don’t burn yourself, to keep others warm.”~
Amit Kalantri

You have showed up again. This time you feel like a rotten piece of garbage, yuck! It sucks to the bone. In fact that’s what they think you are, a little piece of junk especially after they used you last time. They use you everytime for their own satisfaction but you seem to be dumb because just like a dog back to its vomit, in peace there you go. I don’t blame you. The last time you did go, you did not like it, infact you swore never to go back. You have reassured yourself with that statement for like1000 times by now.

The only remedy to your gross feeling is your good heart, a heart for the people. You care too much for people and if we are being honest here, you want them to see and accept you into their circles. Yes I know how much you cared about him or her and like pain direct to the spine, they avoid you. You feel it and much of this, you are aware. How are you supposed to deal with this crap, you tell yourself…no it doesn’t matter, I will learn to wait till the notice me. You run a press to generate reasons for you not to leave. You cling on too long but the worst is that they don’t even notice,they don’t care at all.

Family is a strong bond, friendship is a glue that sticks, partnership is a whole lot of stitch but all these without a touch of acceptance is a narrow escape to frustration. A route to no peace. It’s easy to be in a sorrounding of friends without being accepted. What’s the fastest speed that can break treasure and love/unity? Why do people stay in a red flagged relationships and sustain it? What can an abusive relationship do to you to add some additional flavour? What’s your take on a dissatisfying job?

Why do people force things that can’t work naturally? Why do you need to do extra all the times ? Why do we crave to fit in? Have you ever thought about how life would be if you weren’t dictated by how people control your value in their lives? People have a natural way of seeing importance in other people and accepting them as they are while other people have a natural deficit personality that neglects other people. You see … that’s based on deep internal feeling. How can our uniqueness become a threat to people.

Never allow someone to treat you wrong just because you’re patient. Never allow someone to use you just because you’re always at arms length whenever they need you only. Why should someone only become close to you when you have money. People treasure treasurable things and sometimes being treasurable may mean to leave. You can’t please everyone,you can not be what people want, you are who you are and you can only sustain that not demote it.